I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become.
~ Carl Gustav Jung ~
Are You Living Your Life At Affect, or At Cause.
If I live my life at affect I am a product of my circumstances, I let the circumstances around me dictate what happens to me. I choose to live my life at cause, “I am what I choose to be”. Another way of saying it; “I choose to live by choice not by chance” If I am in creation of my life, making choices to take action steps towards my goals and dreams, I leave nothing to chance. I am in the directors chair, making choices and being accountable to those choices.
If I choose to pursue a dream or reach a goal and it doesn’t work out, I reflect on what I learned and move on. I choose not to blame anyone nor myself, as I know that playing the victim is just an excuse for not getting the results I wanted. I get to look at my intention and my commitment to reaching my goals or dreams.
How are you living your life?
Coaching is the most gratifying work I have done thus far in my life. There is no better feeling than assisting people to look at their lives with a different perspective, seeing results of their hard work and effort.